Jennifer Lopez is reportedly making efforts to bridge the emotional gap with her estranged husband, Ben Affleck, amid their ongoing divorce. Just months after filing for separation, Lopez is said to be leveraging family time to rekindle their connection for the sake of their children and shared memories.
According to reports from Heat World and Marca, the 55-year-old singer and actress is determined to maintain a semblance of unity during the festive season. “She’s refusing to give up on Ben,” shared a source. Despite
their divorce proceedings, Lopez has been attending events where Affleck is present and advocating for group activities with their blended family.
“Ben has been trying to create some distance, but Jen is insistent. She’s now proposing they celebrate Thanksgiving and Christmas together, saying it’s for the kids,” an insider revealed. However, the Argo actor reportedly feels the push for togetherness might have more to do with Lopez’s personal desires than just co-parenting harmony.
Concerns about family dynamics
Lopez’s motivation reportedly stems from her concern about how the divorce may affect their children, who have grown close during the couple’s two-year marriage. Their blended family includes Lopez’s twins, Emme and Max, from her previous marriage to Marc Anthony, and Affleck’s three children, Violet, Seraphina, and Samuel, with ex-wife Jennifer Garner.
While Lopez is pushing for a united front, Affleck is reportedly cautious. The Gone Girl actor believes the focus should remain on co-parenting rather than revisiting a romance that ended amid public scrutiny.
A relationship marked by history
Lopez and Affleck’s high-profile love story began in the early 2000s when they became one of Hollywood’s most talked-about couples. The two were briefly engaged before splitting in 2004, each going on to marry and divorce other partners. Their romance was rekindled in 2021, culminating in a star-studded wedding in 2022. However, their reunion was short-lived, with Lopez filing for divorce in August 2024, citing irreconcilable differences.
The holiday season: a test of unity
With Thanksgiving and Christmas approaching, Lopez’s efforts to arrange family celebrations may serve as a litmus test for their ability to navigate life as co-parents. While Affleck remains hesitant, Lopez’s determination underscores her commitment to keeping family ties strong, even amid personal challenges. Fans will undoubtedly watch closely as the couple navigates this next chapter in their storied relationship.
