Disconnected by connection

Technology enhances connectivity but weakens human bonds and privacy. Balancing digital progress with core social values is essential

Technology has transformed our world, accelerating innovation, improving access to information, and connecting people across vast distances. Yet, amid these advancements, we often overlook its impact on fundamental human values and social dynamics. While digital progress has fostered global interactions and economic growth, it has also eroded direct human connections, raised privacy concerns, and weakened cultural roots. This paradox highlights how technology strengthens connectivity while simultaneously disconnecting us from essential human interactions and values.

Social values have traditionally evolved gradually, shaped by cultural traditions, religious beliefs, and societal norms. The digital revolution, however, has accelerated this transformation, redefining our identities as social beings. People once had a deep attachment to their hometowns and birthplaces, but digital connectivity has reduced the necessity of physical presence, weakening this sense of belonging. A 2023 Pew Research Center survey found that 62 percent of respondents felt less connected to their home communities than previous generations, affecting civic participation, local economies, and political engagement.

Technology has also altered ethical and moral perceptions. Traditional values like respect for elders, patience in relationships, and community-based problem-solving are being replaced by instant gratification, online validation, and individualism. While some changes reflect progress, they also challenge the foundation of cultural and familial structures worldwide. Excessive screen time has significantly reduced in-person interactions within families and communities.

Studies show that the average person spends nearly seven hours daily on digital devices (DataReportal, 2023), limiting meaningful discussions and shared experiences. Social media, in particular, exposes individuals to different value systems, influencing relationships, marriage, and parenting. Unrealistic portrayals of success and beauty contribute to personal dissatisfaction, straining family dynamics. The American Psychological Association (APA) reported that 37 percent of teenagers experience anxiety or depression linked to excessive social media use. This growing mental health crisis underscores the hidden costs of digital connectivity.

Moreover, younger generations, engrossed in digital platforms, are growing distant from older family members, threatening the continuity of traditional values. While social media enhances virtual connections, it diminishes the quality of real-world relationships. A University of Oxford study found that people who spend more than three hours daily on social media report higher levels of loneliness compared to those who spend less time online. In developed countries, technology is used primarily as a necessity, integrated into specific aspects of life such as work, education, and daily tasks.

However, in developing nations like Pakistan, people have become increasingly addicted to technology, often using it excessively for entertainment and social validation rather than productivity. This over-reliance on digital platforms has led to reduced personal interactions and growing societal detachment. A 2023 Digital Pakistan report revealed that 85 percent of young adults spend over four hours daily on social media, with a significant portion engaging in non-educational content. This contrasts with countries like Germany and Japan, where digital consumption is more regulated and focused on professional and academic use.

Governments, educators, and families must work together to promote ethical technology use, ensuring that progress does not come at the cost of human values. By fostering responsible digital consumption and prioritizing meaningful interactions, societies can embrace the future without sacrificing the essence of human connection.

Despite its challenges, technology has also strengthened family bonds by enabling distant relatives to stay connected through video calls and instant messaging. Apps like WhatsApp, Zoom, and FaceTime have made cross-border communication seamless, with a 45 percent increase in video call usage since the covid-19 pandemic. Additionally, technology has expanded educational opportunities for children, allowing parents to use digital learning tools, online courses, and parenting applications. Virtual tutoring and progress monitoring have become more accessible, providing alternatives to traditional education.

Technology has also played a crucial role in promoting gender equality and challenging conventional family roles. Women now have greater access to education, career opportunities, and financial independence. According to the World Economic Forum’s 2023 Global Gender Gap Report, the digital economy has enabled 62 percent of women in developing countries to participate in remote work or entrepreneurial ventures.

Digital advocacy has also given marginalized communities a platform to voice their experiences and demand equal rights. This shift has contributed to changing family structures, with many individuals prioritizing careers over early marriages. A UNESCO report indicates that the average age of marriage has risen by three to five years in several countries due to career aspirations, highlighting how technology is reshaping societal norms.

Globalization and technological advancements have bridged cultural gaps, leading to a rise in interethnic and intercultural marriages. According to the Pew Research Center, 17 percent of marriages in the United States are now interracial, up from just three percent in 1967. While this cultural exchange fosters inclusivity, it also challenges identity preservation. Many cultures struggle to maintain linguistic and traditional heritage as Western influences dominate digital platforms. Some governments have introduced policies promoting cultural retention through digital means, such as language-learning apps and online heritage preservation projects.

Technology has simplified daily tasks like banking, shopping, and bill payments, saving time and reducing stress. Online communities have also provided support networks where individuals share personal experiences, fostering encouragement and inspiration.

However, privacy concerns remain critical. Article 12 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights recognizes privacy as a fundamental human right, yet digital tools make personal data easily accessible to corporations and governments. A 2023 Norton Cybersecurity Insights Report found that 71 percent of internet users worry about data privacy, with four out of five expressing concerns about online tracking.

Protecting privacy requires robust legal frameworks and increased digital literacy. Regulations like the General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) in the European Union and similar laws in the United States and India reflect global efforts to secure personal information. Privacy extends beyond data security—it is about maintaining autonomy, freedom of expression, and human dignity.

While technology offers unparalleled convenience, it also presents ethical dilemmas. The fine line between accessibility and privacy is often blurred, necessitating ongoing efforts to maintain transparency. Achieving complete data protection may be unrealistic, but recognizing the significance of privacy reinforces respect for human dignity. Technology is now an integral part of daily life, but how the younger generation engages with it remains a critical concern. The rapid digitalization of life has minimized opportunities to nurture deep human relationships.

A study by the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that individuals who reduced screen time by 30 percent reported stronger emotional bonds with family and friends. Finding a balance between technological reliance and preserving human connection is essential to sustaining the core values that define us as social beings.

Governments, educators, and families must work together to promote ethical technology use, ensuring that progress does not come at the cost of human values. By fostering responsible digital consumption and prioritizing meaningful interactions, societies can embrace the future without sacrificing the essence of human connection.

Ayaz Hussain Abbasi
Ayaz Hussain Abbasi
The writer is a freelance columnist

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